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He’s Not Your Man, Sis: Why ‘Almost Relationships’ Are a Waste of Time

Writer: Meshia WoodsMeshia Woods

Let’s be real for a second—“almost relationships” are just fancy ways of saying you’re stuck in the undefined gray zone. You know the one: endless texting, late-night hangouts, and zero clarity on where things are actually going. It’s exhausting, isn’t it? Let’s talk about why it’s time to walk away from these situationships.


You Deserve More Than “Almost


Here’s the thing: If someone wants to be with you, they’ll make it crystal clear. No “maybe,” no “I’m not ready for a relationship right now,” and definitely no breadcrumbs. Staying in an undefined space just means you’re putting someone else’s comfort above your own worth. And sis, you’re worth so much more than vague promises.


The Red Flags Are Neon Bright


“We’re just seeing where it goes” sounds cute until you realize you’re putting all your emotional energy into someone who’s not doing the same. If you’ve been in the same gray area for months with no progress—that’s not a slow burn; that’s a stalled car. Time to leave it on the side of the road.


When to Walk Away


Here’s your sign: If you’re feeling more confused than cherished, it’s time to pack up your energy and redirect it toward yourself. Walking away doesn’t mean you’ve failed—it means you’ve chosen you. And trust me, the right person will never leave you wondering where you stand.


Bottom Line:Almost relationships are just emotional limbo. You deserve real effort, real commitment, and real love. So, stop settling for someone who’s “almost” there and save your heart for the person who’s all there. Sis, you’ve got this—now go get what you truly deserve!




 
 

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